Saturday, September 27, 2008

Unconditional Love

In my years on this earth I have always thought that the love between a man and a woman had to be unconditional in order for it to be true. Though I have had many relationships, long term, I always thought Mr. Right would love me unconditionally. So I meet "Mr. Right" and think he is the one, I can feel it in my bones. I see that he is the one that I want to have children with and whose name I want to take. Years pass and things progress. Then one day I wake up and realize he doesn't love me unconditionally. I wondered if I have made the biggest mistake of my life or if something was wrong with me. Did he deceive me? Hardly, if anything he's been the most honest individual in my life.

"Honey does this shirt make me look fat?"

"Well you don't look the same way you did a year ago"

Thanks for the honesty love.

Anyhow does this make him an evil person or does this make our relationship doomed? Absolutely not. If anything it makes him brutally honest and me, well it makes me get off of my cloud 9 and get back to reality.

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